"If I only had it to do-over . . ."

A byproduct of writing the Unlived Lives trilogy is that I am now more likely to dream of lives I would have lived had I made different choices in the past. Some of them I enjoy, some I don't.

The life I do live is no different. Starts and stops, good and bad, and, like Raymond and the others, I have to accept what comes along.

But more than just accepting, I identify the choices I would make again, those I would not, hoping to have more of the former, less of the latter in the future.

There are no do-overs, but we can do better.